Why "Finding Your Purpose" is Bulldust

Let's take an honest look at why finding your purpose isn’t enough on its own and offer some practical steps to ensure you’re putting in the work to achieve your goals.


In the world of personal development and life coaching, the phrase "finding your purpose" is often thrown around as if it's a magic key to unlocking a fulfilling life. Coaches promise that once you discover your purpose, everything else will fall into place. While the idea sounds enticing, it’s mostly bulldust. The harsh reality is that simply knowing your purpose won't change your life if you don't put in the work to make it happen.

The Misuse of "Purpose"

The concept of finding your purpose is frequently misused by some coaches to create an illusion of value. They paint a picture that discovering your purpose is the end goal, and once achieved, your path will be clear and straightforward. This approach can make clients feel good in the short term but leaves them unequipped for the long haul. Purpose without action is just a dream.



Putting in the Work: Five Key Ways

To truly benefit from understanding your purpose, you must be ready to put in consistent effort. Here are five key ways to ensure you’re putting in the work:

1. Set Specific, Actionable Goals

A purpose is too vague to drive change on its own. Break it down into specific, measurable, and achievable goals. For instance, if your purpose is to help others, set goals like volunteering a certain number of hours per month or obtaining a certification that enhances your ability to assist others.

2. Develop a Routine

Consistent routines lead to significant progress over time. Create daily or weekly routines that align with your goals. This could include setting aside time each day for learning, practicing a new skill, or working on a project related to your purpose.

3. Seek Continuous Improvement

Embrace a growth mindset and seek opportunities for continuous improvement. Attend workshops, read relevant books, or engage with a mentor who can provide guidance and feedback. Always look for ways to enhance your knowledge and skills.

4. Hold Yourself Accountable

Accountability is crucial for maintaining momentum. Share your goals with a friend, family member, or coach who can check in on your progress. Regularly review your goals and assess your performance. Adjust your strategies as needed to stay on track.

5. Embrace Challenges and Failures

Challenges and failures are inevitable on the path to achieving your purpose. Instead of viewing them as setbacks, see them as learning opportunities. Each obstacle you overcome builds resilience and brings you closer to your goals. Stay persistent and adaptable.

Finding your purpose can be a powerful motivator, but it’s not a solution in itself. 

Without putting in the work, the concept remains hollow. 

By setting specific goals, developing routines, seeking continuous improvement, holding yourself accountable, and embracing challenges, you can turn your purpose into meaningful action. 



Remember, the journey is just as important as the destination, and the work you put in along the way is what will truly transform your life.

Lee ClarkCTA


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